Tribute Wall
Monday
29
January
Memorial Service
10:00 am
Monday, January 29, 2018
Calgary Crematorium & Funeral Services
3219 - 4th Street NW
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
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Dana (McDonald) BOYCE posted a condolence
Friday, February 16, 2018
just received the sad news about the passing of my GODFATHER TOM.
Ray you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Endings always come at last
Endings always come too fast and they last too long
when the singer is gone, let his song go on
Dana & Ken Boyce
Sun City AZ
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Jacqueline Donoghue posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 31, 2018
My dear Ray,
It was always 'Tommy and Ray'....two loving, lovely gentleman. We didn't see each other very often but it was always with smiles and hugs.
Tommy will be missed....but he will be forever remembered.
You are in my thoughts, with good wishes for happy memories,
Jacqueline Donoghue
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Tracy posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Thank you for your many years of dedication to the sport of show jumping. You’ve paved the way for many. May you RIP. Riding your favourite steed through those gates.
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Patti Sifton-Munro posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2018
My sincere condolences to Tommy's family on their loss. I have many wonderful memories of him from my time showing out west, he was always so encouraging and kind to me. Thinking of you all at this sad time, Patti
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Colleen Hlady posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2018
Tommy and Ray have brighten my days more than they will ever know. Every time they entered Phil's Restaurant the entire staff would smile from ear to ear. Thank you so much for all of the laughs, hugs and wonderful stories. You will be missed more than you know but you have left us all with a gift that will last a lifetime. People like you make the world a better place. I'm also very glad that my 3 kids had the chance to know you.
Ray Please keep in touch, I would love to see you again.
Hugs, Colleen and family.
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Anne French posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2018
Hello Ray,
So saddened by the death of our dear friend Tommy. So many memories of years ago and his wonderful tack shop. He will certainly be missed. Hopefully you will come by and see some of your old friends. Take care , Anne and Bas French
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Jack and Jackie Hugill posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2018
Jackie and I, like so many others in the show jumping world were saddened upon learning of the recent passing of Tommy.
Tommy was always the gentleman, gracious and fun to work with at Spruce Meadows.
From time to time I have had the priviledge and enjoyment of announcing along side Tommy and will always remember his admonition to new volunteers and officials: “Rememberg, what happens in the judges booth stays in the judges booth”.
Tommy will be missed by many and our heartfelt condolences go out to Ray and family.
Jack and Jackie Hugill
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Rodney Muir posted a condolence
Monday, January 29, 2018
When I first met Tommy, I was a starry-eyed 12 year old learning how to ride a horse over several small obstacles. Tommy was patient beyond belief as I picked myself up off the ground, learned to sit properly and just stay on the horse, no matter what.
As the years went on we re-connected from time to time through mutual friends. It was always such a joy to see Tommy who had a wonderful smile and such a warm greeting, not to mention many good stories.
It was such a pleasure to know Tommy.
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Paula Harris posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Dear Ray - Darcy and I send our condolences and sincere sympathy. It was always a treat to work in the judge's booth with Tommy, and you as well. We loved his sense of humour. Carol, Deb, Sue and I have been enjoying reminiscing about those times.
Take care of yourself.
Sincerely,
Paula Harris and Darcy Ellison
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Rick Maynard posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Tom was one of my favourite people...We have known him since his first Spruce Meadows. His welcoming smile and good cheer was infectious. Jennifer and I will miss him immensely.
Rick and Jennifer Maynard
Vancouver
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Carol Kettlewell posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Dear Ray, and all members of Tommy's family,
I was very sad to hear of Tommy's passing, firstly from one of my neighbours who had junior judged under him, and then of course from all our Spruce Meadows friends. Tommy sold me my first saddle way back in '68 when he was at The Tack Shop. I have so many great memories of all those times I worked with you and Tommy at Spruce Meadows, and I know so many others do too. Tommy was so well respected and such a great member of the horse community.
Sending you love and a big hug Ray!
Carol Kettlewell
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Carolyn Vaillancourt posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Dear Ray
My deepest condolences to you and family. Tom was one of the most remarkable gentlemen I had the honour to know. He took me under his wing when I was starting out and will always hold a special place in my heart. He will be missed xxoo
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Elaine Becker posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
I remember meeting Tommy and Ray over 50 years ago in San Francisco. We visited you guys in Calgary for the Stampede many years ago. You have continued a lifelong friendship with our friend Stepanie Degorog. Tommy will be missed.
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Kim Fairbairn posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Sincere condolences to Ray and family and the Equestrain community you worked with so closey. I’m so glad I had the opportunity of knowing you Tommy. R.I.P.
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gaye Taylor posted a condolence
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Dear Ray,
i am sorry for your loss of such a beloved partner. i knew Tommy back in the 70s and 80s through horses. We bought his horse, Air Canada, from him.
we shared so many great times at shows. one time in particular, he came back to my parents for dinner after judging a show in Regina. oh my, we had such a hilarious time exchanging stories.
although i hadn't seen Tommy in many years, he always held a special place in my heart.
Gaye Griffin Taylor
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Darryl Staszczak posted a condolence
Saturday, January 27, 2018
Dear Ray-So sorry for your loss. Tommy was such a great fellow-so sweet and humorous. Have many fond memories of our times together years ago. Wishing you all the best in this difficult time. Love and hugs Darryl
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Nancy Wetmore posted a condolence
Saturday, January 27, 2018
Dear Ray and Tommy's family, I was so, so saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. He was one of my all time favourite people in the sport. He made so many invaluable contributions and will be missed tremendously. I personally will miss the unequalled sense of humour that Tom always had at hand.. It never failed to bring tears of laughter to my eyes. God speed Tommy.
Nancy Wetmore
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Rob michiel & Monique Hubbs-Michiel posted a condolence
Saturday, January 27, 2018
So sad to hear of uncle Tom's passing, Monique and i are thinking of you Ray and are glad to know you are surrounded by family and friends......God bless.
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Carol and Barry Ashton posted a condolence
Saturday, January 27, 2018
Ray,
We are proud to have known Tom and to have shared many years of laughter with the two of you at Spruce Meadows. Tom lived a full and active life, one that can be celebrated. We offer our condolences.
Carol and Barry Ashton
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Anne Selinger Cox lit a candle
Saturday, January 27, 2018
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Dear Ray. Was so saddened to hear about Tommy. There are no words to express how much he will be missed. Love you.
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Fran McAvity posted a condolence
Friday, January 26, 2018
Dear Ray,
So saddened to realize there could be a world without Tom. We will miss his ever ready smile, quick wit, and dedication to our sport. Remember your equestrian community will always be there for you.
Hugs
Fran
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Fran McAvity lit a candle
Friday, January 26, 2018
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Fran McAvity lit a candle
Friday, January 26, 2018
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Dear Ray, So saddened to realize there could be a world without Tom. We will miss his everyready smile, quick wit, and dedication to our sport. Remember, your equestrian community will always be there for you. With hugs, Fran McAvity
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Fran McAvity lit a candle
Friday, January 26, 2018
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Dear Ray, So saddened to realize there could be a world without Tom. We will miss his everyready smile, quick wit, and dedication to our sport. Remember, your equestrian community will always be there for you. With hugs, Fran McAvity
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Chris Pack posted a condolence
Friday, January 26, 2018
To the most genuine, knowledgeable, funny, caring and just the right amount of gentle man I have ever had the pleasure of working with. Tommy you not only set the standard in our industry of how to carry ones self in judging, but you were so humble you were always the first one to poke fun of yourself for a chuckle, it was an absolute pleasure to have worked with you and Ray and I hope that you rest well my friend.
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Friday, January 26, 2018
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Ray, I am so saddened by Tommy's passing. Will always have good memories of him and Spruce Meadows, I miss them both.
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Margaret (Maggie) Kemp posted a condolence
Friday, January 26, 2018
Dear Ray.
My heart goes out to you. So sorry to hear about Tommy's passing. Such a great guy and sense of humor. Give yourself a big hug til I can see you.
Love ya Maggie (Twiggy).
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Fleur Tipton lit a candle
Friday, January 26, 2018
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You were a great horseman and a special person Tommy.
Will remember you always
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Equestrian Canada Karen purchased flowers
Friday, January 26, 2018
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Friday, January 26, 2018
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Karen @ Equestrian Canada posted a condolence
Friday, January 26, 2018
Ray, my thoughts, prayers and heart felt sympathy go out to you and Tommy's family at this most difficult time. Tommy was a true horseman, dedicated to his sport, with a fantastic sense of humor. He will be sadly missed by all.
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Friday, January 26, 2018
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Debbie Anderson posted a condolence
Friday, January 26, 2018
Ray: My heart breaks for you at this time of such extreme sorrow. Wish I could be there on Monday to give you a big hug. I wont be able to get back to Alberta for the service as we just got to Lake Havasu for the next 2 months and have company arriving to visit next week. Please know my thoughts are with you at this time. You and Uncle Tom always made us laugh when we got together which wasn't often enough but time just seems to get away from us all over the years. If there is anything I can do for you at all please let me know. Love you always Debbie Ann
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claudette clement posted a condolence
Friday, January 26, 2018
Ray, my most heartfelt sympathy. Thoughts and prayers accompany you on this dififcult journey
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Louise Walrond lit a candle
Thursday, January 25, 2018
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Your light is bright Uncle. I well forever feel this loss .Our hearts are with your Ray, and we are here for him.
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Heather Findlay posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing, Ray. He was a great horseman and dedicated to his sport. Tom will be missed by so many.
Heather Findlay
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Louise Walrondby posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, January 25, 2018
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Louise Walrond posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
I love you so much Uncle Ray, Im so sorry youve lost Tom. You and Uncle Tom have been there for me my whole life, youve both been father figures to me and Glenn, and we both feel a painful emptiness. But much bigger than that emptines is our love for you, your our family. Glenn is wearing green because when he thinks of Uncle Tom he thinks of him in his beautuful garden, surrounded by green and growth and warmth and the light of life. You've always brought such a light to my life, Im here for you- im not that far away. I love you
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Shannon & Gary Mouck posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Dearest Ray, we are so sorry to hear of Tommys passing. His kindness, empathy and sweet sweet self will be so sadly missed. Please know that your many many friends are by your side and will be there for you.
So truly yours
Shan & Gary Mouck
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Charlene posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
God must have needed an angel, certainly have a star angel now! Our condolences and sympathy.
Special thoughts,
Charlene & as Tommy so fondly called them his girls Nikiki & Keltie
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Bill & Rob posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Ray, please accept our heartfelt sympathies. We were very saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. We have such fond memories of Tommy. You two were always an inspirational couple to us with the love and joy you shared. We hope you find strength at this very difficult time in the love and support of your friends and family.
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Jean and Ernie posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
The memories of Tommy was that he has always been a great human being.
Our thoughts are with You Ray.
Condolences.
Jean and Ernie
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Karen Learmonth purchased flowers
Thursday, January 25, 2018
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Terry MaKenzie posted a condolence
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Dear Ray, We are so sorry to learn of Tommy's passing. We join you in mourning. And we remember and have joy in your years together, knowing that your memories are rich and deep. Love, Ken and Terry
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